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Love Is Free Will

Its common in the malay society to use black magic to get back at someone. More common in relationships where one party gets jilted. The person under the spell usually becomes like possesed, suffers a disease which it effects their looks or cause them to be bed ridden. It shows that love and jealousy can turn people to their lowest. But come to think of it, is it really love that you are willing to cause suffering to the person that dumped you. What chance is there after causing the person pain to win their love back. I always carry this motto with me "when you want love, you have to give love". Not demand love with antagonism or play the terrorist. Love is developes from a person's free will. Love can't be imposed on someone like work (Remember Bruce All Mighty:)). Obviously its hurts, the feeling of rejection and low self worth which fuels the determination to take revenge. But at the end of the day, isn't it just a feeling. There is a very wise saying that we all come under stress, but the difference is how we choose to react to it. We can choose to dwell, play the victim and start plotting and down playing the other party. Or choose to focus our energy somewhere else. Maybe its an indication to look for new friends, new relationships or it could be a welcome break from the dating game to better oneself. At the end, we all have to remember this only a temporary place and that we are just passing through. All that is happening to us is just a test. Just take the worst and make the best out of it. Who knows, it might turn out to be better.:)

posted by edii @ 7:25 PM